ABUSE OF THE FEMININE/INNOCENT CHILD IN US
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By Ester Zazzaro
BTW, unless men, holy men really see this aspect in themselves there is no way whatsoever they have any kind of capacity to teach other men anything, including the boys they father.
I have met so few men, maybe none who heartfully, without shame connect to their abusive heritage wholly, which is why the feminine even needs active vigilance from the men in their lives, to know they are the aspects they interact with. This is a rare insight in spiritual leaders without OverLording their disciples.
Physical, emotional, mental, financial, spiritual violence towards women is rife on our plain of existence. So many women are murdered physically and also silently, invisibly in Australia at the hands of their partners. We all suffer. We all need to be lucid.
As Woman if you ever receive a text message from a Lover/Beloved as the one written below it is a signal to decipher who and what demonic psychic agent is really communicating from Your masculine, and to treat is as such.
We speak to parts of ourselves when with anybody and this cannot be forgotten if truly children of God. We are erroneously programmed from misguided human parents which is how we learn to treat ourselves with them as abused as anyone from the prolific legacy of mishandling.
"I am busy in the world and have no patience for you at the moment.
(This is a father/mother voice that has taught the man how to modify an energy that is overwhelming, passed down generationally. It is a tactic to suppress the energy and force it to subdue in him).
Rather than hurting you with harsh words, I will not be engaging with you today.
(This is a statement said to the child to be grateful that the parent has the compassion to not unleash destruction onto the aspect, a threat and points to validating itself that it has the required restraint to not hurt the part even more however the non-engagement in the first sentence is punitive and designed to teach the consequences of freely expressing, again so deeply programmed into the psyche).
If you’d like, I will go so you can have the space here that you’re familiar with.
(An invitation to be left alone as a compassionate act, moreover probably guilt of not wating to continue the pain between the two parts. For the aspect that is expressing itself through connection this is unconsciously a form of teaching abandonment as a familiar rite of passage if it acts in a certain way).
Earlier today, you asked me to go, and you also have refused to apologize, show any remorse or humility, or even recognize that the way you acted was inappropriate and extremely harsh, mean, and aggressive. (Attacking the Other aspect with no communication of vulnerability in the experience except a demand to be treated better, despite so little love in itself, just dictatorial authority. This parental voice internally no doubt feels extremely vulnerable within and attacked by a part that exhibits an unfamiliar strength of love towards itself instead of suppression. In other words the punishing aspect is confronted by another aspect because it doesn't know or understand how it doesn't use suppression on itself as a behaviour modification. This is a deep feminine skill no doubt from all the violence put on her down through the ages. A courage that literally defies logic imprinted into the soul).
You showed me that your goal is to harm me. That means you are not safe for me to engage with, and I am taking time and space to recoup my energy that you drained from me, either knowingly or unknowingly. (The parental voice that depicts its own experience above a feminine/child aspect of itself is heartbreakingly clear. There is no union and tenderness for the Other or the Other's experience. For a parent in this state it cannot hold its own experience and hold an aspect that triggers it simultaneously. It can't see the love modelled from the part of demonstrating a way to be free without pushing it down and the parental figure clings to the way it was raised for safe bolstering and validation of itself).
I will not speak to you again for the rest of the day." (See above. An attempt to teach the loving part to close itself down believing that will protect it and it will from the parent's own dominating aspect. Instead of retraining itself to act differently it puts the onus on squashing the feminine/child part)
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