ADDRESSING THE TRADITIONAL UNDERSTANDING OF TRAUMA
This Blog is written by the Creator of StillPoint Lovemaking™, Ester Zazzaro. She is the facilitator of a Facebook Group.
Imagine if what everyone has termed trauma bonding stems from an inability to recognise the deeper implication of what draws the two bodies together. A highly intelligent, orchestrated system designed to resolve programming, by putting the bodies together and physically loving one another. Most people have forgotten their birthright skill to 'make love,' the way out of their personality differences.
Expand even further to see how limited most people's views go in perceiving their childhood trauma as resulting from two parent's bonded in wounding, as opposed to ignorance in seeing how to 'make love' the pathway to home, hearth and heart health. Blindness to the full truth is what traumatizes generations.
When entering any fluid space, matter is liquefied or must at the least, take on its attributes if it wants to thrive. He penetrates not to conquer but to swim and even more, dive. This week Steve and I were privileged to speak to Mandy Richardson on Mandyland Radio. One thing that struck me was Mandy's ability to describe what people do, best. She said something which I interpreted as, you two are so transparent and exposed with what you go through together. Committed to bring the full, uncensored truth from the sheets exactly as you both experience it. You can listen to our podcast episode with Mandy on Spotify here
The love and deep honor I have for Mandy and Steve defies description. Suffice to say that without the impeccable integrity and courage of these two unwavering beings, swimming to these uncharted depths and then navigating an illuminated path in its visionless waters, would not be possible.
He penetrates, even the language is inaccurate. Everywhere, everyone repeats how much He penetrates. At the core there is no-thing for him to get into. Perhaps that's how friction became overused. He needs lots of attempts to essentially realize there isn't anything there.
Once that's realized. Lovemaking begins. This is one of the most accurate truths extracted. I die to Her while being loved by Him. Only Mandy could elucidate the holy gems from a full, intense and rich podcast conversation. If you aren't working with Steve and myself or you are.
If you sense, in your bones that from all the many people talking about intimacy there is still a vital piece missing. You will at least want to be absorbing raw, pure lovemaking gnosis that we devotedly live and breathe every day by listening to our very potent, never heard before sageness.
Neither person, but especially, especially women can enter lovemaking with a gym mentality. Add to this, that every accumulated shred of hardness will need to soften for the deep fulfillment of heart and genital-merging lovemaking (the only kind that will satisfy) to take place.
There's floating on a cloud and then there's floating through your day with the softest, velvety, yielding yoni tissues. Not sharing what you really think and feel? You're still a nice girl playing the role of a kinky woman; partaking in all sorts of sexy positions. It takes courage to reall~y please Him by saying no to his conditioning.
Most women are not sexually repressed. This term however is what they are given often to make sense of their sexual numbness. No. Most women have had their love dream crushed; told that it is an unrealistic fairytale and the many experiences gleaned since young have convinced them that love is exclusive from the physical sexual act.
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