VIRGIN/WHORE SYNDROME AND HOW IT IS LINKED TO TAKING A LONG-TERM FEMALE PARTNER FOR GRANTED ~ Forcing her towards motherly, wordly and domestic duties.
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By Ester Zazzaro
(Read slowly and be aware as always that these energies split in our individual vessels first and then play out in the world).
Programming in the masculine needs to divide an everyday woman between a holy woman who doesn't physically recieve a man's lingam, to believe they are blessed by an untainted, pure feminine and a highly charged, lustful whore who only wants to receive their lingam to experience wholeness.
This is especially marked in modern-day spiritual men and communities that exalt the Goddess etc.
Unknowingly the lingam is perceived as too dirty and animal to go inside a woman and have her remain a Goddess.
Aka your mother loved you and rejected your lingam so you have not yet integrated to include your lingam as part of your whole body as lovingly sacred.
When some men go into a woman they have to reject a part of themselves to do it and now unconsciously seek the woman who can split and fracture the two. They will unconsciously trust the asexual woman more as some kind of true compass of their spirituality.
The woman they have intercourse with is automatically brought under suspicion and considered less knowing to let their lingam into her body. She mustn't recognise how easily influenced she is by his lower nature and so inadvertently his love becomes protecting her from that. It's definitely a confusing set-up for everyone involved and masks so many dark psychic forces.
This can also be a present unconscious dynamic underlying the unrequited female friendships too that we see in romantic comedies. We live in an age where religion is shunned and forget the thousands of years of indoctrination that sits below the surface of our visceral cells even in non-practising humans.
Men have been taught to think their animal desires are perverted. Then fantasies ensue about being with a woman who refuses to take their lingam into their body, like their mother acted. Their mother is a complete reflection and proof of how they are prohibited to marry love and sex in their one body.
To please the mother in them they are required to renounce their baser desires. His mother didn't want to know about them so they must be bad and he is condemned to look for a woman who continues to remind him of how his sex must be amputated.
Eventually though his magnetism for woman which is natural and beautiful, after being pushed down will surface intensely and this is why many men watch porn in secret. They get to psychically fantasise with Woman without the guilt of their mother knowing, even just briefly.
What nobody has taught men is that every Woman is a Goddess with the power to bestow holiness into the union.
If they allow the deep feminine in Her within the woman they choose to be in partnership with to move beyond what their human mother taught them, and then make true, lasting love to have both the lingam and their whole body merged, they have an opportunity through Grace to heal this perpetuating schism within them.
This will require a man to not pigeon-hole or split their women connections and aspects between sexual fantasy or sainthood.
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